From Gloria – no visit with her mother, and no progress on visits since 2009!
This is from Gloria on the first Day of Christmas, when she was denied access to her mother–yet again.
I have heard Judges Connors and Stuart over and over again tell the Plenary Guardian CT to make sure Gloria can see and talk to her mother. But the only thing that happens is dozens of phone calls are made, emails sent and never answered either by PS or CT.
from Gloria:
From: GLORIA Jean SYKES
Sent: Dec 25, 2013 8:07 PM
To: kenneth ditkowsky
Cc: “joanne@denisonlaw.com” , “k_bakken@att.net” , scott evans , Elaine NAsga , LUCIUS VERENUS , Lucinda , Sue Fege , rudy bush , Annie NASGA , GLD , “K. Ditkowsky paralegal” , Judy Ditkowsky , Erma NASGA , barbara nasga , mila NASGA , Lu Nasga , Cook County States Attorney , “sheriff@dupagesheriff.org” , Cook Sheriff , Eric Holder , matt senator kirk , Chicago Tribune , “fox2newsdesk@foxtv.com” , “foxbusiness_7D7B711AF105DCA67E779E75183D8E1D@newsletters.foxnews.com” , Jo Anne Denison , “ilsenate29@sbcglobal.net” , “ilhouse51@sbcglobal.net” , “ilrep49@sbcglobal.net” , “ilsenate20@sbcglobal.net” , “isilverstein@senatedem.ilga.gov” , “tips@cbschicago.com”
Subject: Re: SYKES – DENIED again to speak to my mother
But Ken if Toerpe and CompNy say the sky is made of green cheese then every Judge and law.enforcement agency believes the sky is indeed made of green cheese. When you or I or Kathy question whether the sky is made of green cheese then we are discredited and the Courts and law enforcement see you, me, Kathie as liars, sick people who are ignored. All I wanted to do today was tell my mother how much I love her and to wish her good tidings. The call was that innocent. This is my mother who since 2009 has been denied association with me, Aunt Yo, Kathie, Scott, Doris, all her family and friends who Mother asked us for help and who refused to obey Toerpe’s demands. All of us including Mother is being punished by Toerpe because none of us agreed to the guardianship and have continued to stand up in every court and tell the truth: Carolyn Toerpe is a elder abuser, financial exploiter, a person of the lie who has joined forces with other elder and disabled persons abusers and financial exploiters. The officer who did the wellness check today told me that mother was well dressed and when he asked her if she was okay she said yes and told him hashed was hanging decorations and having a nice time. I asked the officer if he was able to determine her mental state and he said he did not spend that much time with mother.
Law enforcement refuses to do a thorough and proper investigation because they don’t have the understanding of how to do this: they have not been educated in the field of undue influence. Mother is so competent that since Toerpe has told her that she’ll return Mother to a nursing home if mother reaches out to me again: if mother tells any law enforcement the truth, et al!!! For years mothers stock answer was “they treat me like a queen” but today her response changed. today mother was just okay.
Toerpe has the home decorated to an extreme and like families of wealth: perfect! Toerpe has a delusion and created an illusion of a healthy loving family celebrating the holidays but that I am a “problem” and the “court has found” that I am the “abuser” and so I can have no contact with my mother.
Let me close with this question? Has anybody heard of a serial murderer or any criminal when approached by law enforcement saying, “Golly gee you got me. I did it. I killed or I raped so and so”? No, the first thing he or she says is, I didn’t do it! Politicians open their mouths and we know that most of the time they are lying. But a court appointed guardian obviously if she, like Toerpe, says the sky is made of green cheese, it’s made of green cheese.
I just wanted to wish my mother a merry Christmas and my mother was denied the opportunity to speak to me, Kathie and all people who called Mother over the holidays. I guess Toerpe is the court and as she told mother on June 22, 2013 that mother will never see me again.. Mother will be denied association with me and all people she loves and trust because a named abuser to a petition for a protective order authored by Mother on June 9, 2009 whereby Mother wanted to stop Toerpe from taking control of her person and assets, has taken control of mothers assets and property and person…
and law enforcement doesn’t give a damn and all the protections set in stone are ignored.
I just wanted to say hello to my mother today
Sent from my iPad
From: GLORIA Jean SYKES
Sent: Dec 25, 2013 8:07 PM
To: kenneth ditkowsky
Cc: “joanne@denisonlaw.com” , “k_bakken@att.net” , scott evans , Elaine NAsga , LUCIUS VERENUS , Lucinda , Sue Fege , rudy bush , Annie NASGA , GLD , “K. Ditkowsky paralegal” , Judy Ditkowsky , Erma NASGA , barbara nasga , mila NASGA , Lu Nasga , Cook County States Attorney , “sheriff@dupagesheriff.org” , Cook Sheriff , Eric Holder , matt senator kirk , Chicago Tribune , “fox2newsdesk@foxtv.com” , “foxbusiness_7D7B711AF105DCA67E779E75183D8E1D@newsletters.foxnews.com” , Jo Anne Denison , “ilsenate29@sbcglobal.net” , “ilhouse51@sbcglobal.net” , “ilrep49@sbcglobal.net” , “ilsenate20@sbcglobal.net” , “isilverstein@senatedem.ilga.gov” , “tips@cbschicago.com”
Subject: Re: SYKES – DENIED again to speak to my mother
But Ken if Toerpe and CompNy say the sky is made of green cheese then every Judge and law.enforcement agency believes the sky is indeed made of green cheese. When you or I or Kathy question whether the sky is made of green cheese then we are discredited and the Courts and law enforcement see you, me, Kathie as liars, sick people who are ignored. All I wanted to do today was tell my mother how much I love her and to wish her good tidings. The call was that innocent. This is my mother who since 2009 has been denied association with me, Aunt Yo, Kathie, Scott, Doris, all her family and friends who Mother asked us for help and who refused to obey Toerpe’s demands. All of us including Mother is being punished by Toerpe because none of us agreed to the guardianship and have continued to stand up in every court and tell the truth: Carolyn Toerpe is a elder abuser, financial exploiter, a person of the lie who has joined forces with other elder and disabled persons abusers and financial exploiters. The officer who did the wellness check today told me that mother was well dressed and when he asked her if she was okay she said yes and told him hashed was hanging decorations and having a nice time. I asked the officer if he was able to determine her mental state and he said he did not spend that much time with mother.
Law enforcement refuses to do a thorough and proper investigation because they don’t have the understanding of how to do this: they have not been educated in the field of undue influence. Mother is so competent that since Toerpe has told her that she’ll return Mother to a nursing home if mother reaches out to me again: if mother tells any law enforcement the truth, et al!!! For years mothers stock answer was “they treat me like a queen” but today her response changed. today mother was just okay.
Toerpe has the home decorated to an extreme and like families of wealth: perfect! Toerpe has a delusion and created an illusion of a healthy loving family celebrating the holidays but that I am a “problem” and the “court has found” that I am the “abuser” and so I can have no contact with my mother.
Let me close with this question? Has anybody heard of a serial murderer or any criminal when approached by law enforcement saying, “Golly gee you got me. I did it. I killed or I raped so and so”? No, the first thing he or she says is, I didn’t do it! Politicians open their mouths and we know that most of the time they are lying. But a court appointed guardian obviously if she, like Toerpe, says the sky is made of green cheese, it’s made of green cheese.
I just wanted to wish my mother a merry Christmas and my mother was denied the opportunity to speak to me, Kathie and all people who called Mother over the holidays. I guess Toerpe is the court and as she told mother on June 22, 2013 that mother will never see me again.. Mother will be denied association with me and all people she loves and trust because a named abuser to a petition for a protective order authored by Mother on June 9, 2009 whereby Mother wanted to stop Toerpe from taking control of her person and assets, has taken control of mothers assets and property and person…
and law enforcement doesn’t give a damn and all the protections set in stone are ignored.
I just wanted to say hello to my mother today
Sent from my iPad
On Wednesday, December 25, 2013 3:09 PM, GLORIA Jean SYKES <gloami@msn.com> wrote:
Had a wellness check today and indeed mom was at Toerpes. Toerpe told the police there’s an order and I can’t speak to me.
Sent from my iPhone
On Dec 25, 2013, at 12:49 PM, “kenneth ditkowsky” <kenditkowsky@yahoo.com> wrote:
> Everyone is getting an opportunity to see the Illinois holocaust! Illinois has wonderful laws that are well designed to protect the senior citizens from elder abuse, financial exploitation and all the elements of ‘elder cleansing.’ There is just one thing wrong – Our Illinois government just does not enforce the protections and therefore allows the cottage industry of elder cleansing to fester!
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> As you heard PS tell the Judge – Mary is making wonderful progress! Indeed, now that her life savings are safety in the hands of the **** it appears from your description of today’s events the last stages of elder cleansing are being administered. I hope that your sister pays the taxes on the booty! When she was appointed guardian she was insolvent; however today she is reported to sport fine jewelry. AS has a 60,000 Federal Tax Lien. I guess that gives explanation as to the true answers to Larry’s cross examination. It certainly provides an explanation as to why there is such an effort to shut up JoAnne and yours truly.
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> If the Naperville Police is uninterested in doing a wellness check, maybe the DuPage County Sherriff would be interested. I’ve copied then on this e-mail, and your name is on it as well.
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> Gloria – call all the hot line numbers and see if we can stir up a single public employee who is interesting in protecting a senior citizen on Christmas! At one point in time before we became so politically correct half the Cook County Sheriff’s deputies and all of the DuPage County Sheriff’s deputies would be outraged the ‘elder cleansing’ of Mary Sykes. The mining of the gold in Alice Gore’s teeth would have stirred a hue and cry so loud that even Mr. Larkin, Mr. Stern, Ms. Farenga, et al would have had to join in the screams for an HONEST complete and comprehensive investigation of this entire ‘elder cleansing’ affair!
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> I understand why we have taken ‘Christ’ out of Christmas and substituted a giant “A” on the Daley Center Plaza! It fits!
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> Ken Ditkowsky
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> On Wednesday, December 25, 2013 12:11 PM, GLORIA Jean SYKES <gloami@msn.com> wrote:
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> I would love to announce and wish all a merry Chirstmas and happy holidays, but as you all know, my mother is being held holstage by a court appointed (by agreement) guardian, Carolyn Toerpe. This morning I dialed 630-961-0826, Toerpe’s home phone number, and to my amazement, Fred Toerpe answered, “Hello”, (in a angry voice). I responded, “Merry Christmas Fred. I’d like to speak to my mother”. He said, also to my suprise, “Hold on”. What wasn’t a suprise is that (wait, wait…) Fred hung up the phone. I redialed, wanting to believe in the Christmast spirit, it was an accident, but as with all calls the little voice of the VM announced that no one was available to answer the phone, and that the ‘mail box is full’ so I couldn’t leave a message.
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> I’ve copied Carolyn Toerpe’s attorney advocates Adam Stern, Cynthia Farenga, Deborah Jo Soehlig, Peter Schmiedel, and Amanda Bryne on this email — along with law enforcement and other agencies designed to protect not only the elderly and disabled, but also ALL citizens of Illinois, because this conduct is NOT PROTECTED — either is the illegal and wrongful diagnosis labeling my mother in order to railroad her into a guardianship with the named abuser/respondend to a petition for a protective order, CArolyn Toerpe, the guardian. Then there is the 2012 testimony of Dr. Shaw, who Toerpe hired, who stated that in Oct. 2008, on the 17th of the month, mother was incompetent to sign one of the three legal documents she authored under the advisement of her three attorneys!!!! The false statements in not only the Probate court, but the FED, Bankruptcy, U.S. District and 7th Circuit Court of Appeals, gives great weight to my arguments which I will pursue, but who will stand up for my Mother?
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> Although Carolyn Toepe recently testified under oath that mother was living at the Toerpe home in Naperville, if true, it’s because no other independant living facility in the Naperville area would bend over and abide by Adam Stern’s and Toerpe’s demands. A month or so ago, I called one said facility and asked for my mother and I was told to, wait, ‘One minute, hold on’. Many minutes later I was told that there was no such person living there. Hiding a senior is a felony. Nevertheless, and even though attorneys Stern and Schmiedel LIED on June 25, 2013, to Judge Stuart, accusing me of abusing my mother on June 22, 2013 — when Stern and Schmiedel knew and know that the abuser is their client Carolyn Toerpe — and a person with clout got the Illinois Department on Health to ignore the affidavits of Evans, Dennison and myself as to what happened and protect the abuser, Toerpe, too — IS THE FINANCIAL EXPLOITER AND PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL AND MEDICAL ABUSER!!!! Suffice, Sunrise Senior Living LLD was sanctioned in their participation of the horrid and overt abuse perpetrated by Toepre against my mother. In sum, today’s message to all of you is that it’s time to open your eyes and do the right thing! Please help my mother. Please let her return to the family and friends she loves and trusts and live out her life in love, peace, and able like all Americans to be free from hostage and abuse!
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> I’ve asked for another wellness check, but the Naperville Police refused to do their job again. This could be and probably is, because STern, Farenga, Schmiedel, Bryne, Soehlig, and Toepre have succeeded in pursuading law enforcement and others, that I am the problem, an alchoholic who abuses perscription drugs, and a person who is also bi-polar and mentally ill! Of course, Toerpe being a PhD and psychologist, as he testified to in Probate, is their authority. (I’m certain, Dr. G. Shaw was able to give testimony too as to my mental health, although he’s never examined or truly met me, as he testified to Mother’s mental health was in 2008, in Nov. 2012!) This harrassment and libel is not protected just because these attorneys and Toerpe, an officer of the Cour,t believe they are immune. They are not.
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> Let us go over the past years. Mother was never served notice or summons on the guardianship: Mother was living in Du Page County; Aunts Yo and Jo were never served notice or summons: I was never served notice or summons. The appointment by agreement of guardian IS VOID as it was obtained by FRAUD as the court lacked subject matter jurisdiction. Therefore, the Appellate court lacked subject matter jurisdiction. There is no law of the case in case number 2009 P 4585.
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> Mother has repeatedly been unlawfully restrained which is a violation of her Fourth Amendment and opens itself to liability: I too have been falsely imprisoned not only by Judge Stuart, but also by the Chicago PD and the Cook County Sheriff’s Department. Although Mother can’t appeal or file a lawsuit against the perpetrators, I can file on my own behalf, (not mother’s) as I too have been unlawfully detained. It’s called an unlawful detention claim under the Fourth Amendment and unlawful imprisonment under Illinois law. And where Stern, Farenga, Toerpe, Bryne, and Soehlig– and law enforcement want to believe that, for example, the Naperville Police are protected as qualified immunity, on June 22, 2013, the Naperville police violated clearly established statutory and constitutional rights which a reasonable person in their position would have been aware of. They unlawfully detained me, Dennison, Doris and Scott and my Mother!!!! Then the Naperville Police threatened Scott and JoAnne until each deleted the photographs and digital recordings of my Mother. I was threatened, but was not asked to delete any digital recordings or photographs: the threats were that I’d be arrested unless I divulged certain information, such as how I learned where my mother was. I began to call an attorney and the cop shut up, but continued to detain me until Carolyn Toerpe was able to remove mother from the facility even though Mother did not want to leave with Toerpe. Mother’s roommate found me and told me what was going on and said that my Mother was “asking for me”. The manager of the facility literally had this woman stopped from talking to me. It was horrible, and the Police did nothing to protect her, either.
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> Since the violations of my constitutional and statutory rights have been violated since January 2008 and are on-going, and since attorneys Stern, Farenga, Schmeidel, Bryne, and Soehlig are the authorities who, speaking to law enforcement, have encouraged the illegal conduct.
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> Nevertheless, I look forward to 2014 and will bring such a lawsuit against officers of the court, law enforcement and municipalities, et al, even if one or all of these agencies and people were to jump in today and stop the abuses perpetrated against my mother and me, and all people she loves and trusts. Toerps may have been able to steal and convert all of my assets and legal documents which included police reports and digital recordings, (yes, I always was armed with a digital recorder), but what she didn’t realize is that there are more good cops than bad cops, and the good cops have been able to help me reproduce the police records and legal documents. I did have many back up recordings of phone conversations between my mother and me which I shared with friends.
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> Why am I writing this on Christmas Day? Beause all I wanted to do this morning was speak to my mother and wish my Mother a loving holiday hello: as I know she would like to hear from me, too, and I was denied. i was hung up on, and Fred telling me to hold on and then hanging up, is part of the fact of the on going abuse: my mother has been denied association with me or Aunt Yo, Kathie, Scott, Doris, et al, and I have been denied to speak to her on the telephone because each time we did speak in 2009 and 2010 MOTHER WAS COMPETENT, she asked me to find and retain Kenneth Ditkowsky, she asked me to contact the Elder abuse Squade with the States Attorneys office, she begged me for help, and in all cases the calls were either digitally recorded, or there were eye-witnesses to the calls, people who also spoke to my Mother.
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> Let us hever forget what my mother said to me on June 22, 2013 2h3n she saw me enter the Sunrise Senior Living facility:
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> “I knew you didn’t abandon me! I know you would come and
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> These words and phrases will haunt me the rest of my life and they should haunt all of you he believe Toerpe and Company’s LIES!
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> The conduct of attorneys Stern, Farenga, Schmeidel, Soehlig, Bryne, the Cook County States ATtorneys office, the Naperville Police, the Chicago Police, and the Illinois Department on Aging, Illinois Department on Health, et al, is extreme and outrageous. To protect a known elder abuser and financial expoiter is sad: to financially beneift from Mother’s estate through the ffraudt on he Court is a sin: that law enforcement believe attorneys Stern, Farenga, Schmeidel, Soehlig, Bryne, et al is unconscionable, but the tort of IIED will address the ‘severe mental disturbances inflicted by intentional actions wholly lacking in social unity” against me, but who is willing to stand up and protect my mother, who too is suffering servere mental distrubances inflicted by intentional actions whole lacking in social unity, perpetrated by attorneys Stern, Farenga, Schmeidel, Bryne, and Soehlig and fo-guardian, Carolyn Toerpe, against her???
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> I wish for these attorneys the same misery and fear my mother suffers becaue of them as I know that what goes around will come around: it may be the only justice my Mother finds.
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> Toerpe was able to sell my mother’s home, which was in a living revocable trust, for cash $238,000, at least $200,000 below market price. Toerpe, did this without a Court order, just as she moved mother into a nursing home without a court order. Toerpe vacated the Trust!!! Toerpe did not inventory the assets of this sale: nor is there a record of the sale available at the recorder of deeds. This leads me to ask whether the sale was for more money …. Toerpe also removed all of mother’s, father’s and a great deal of my property from 6014 that and didn’t inventory one piece of property that was removed and sold at an estate sale — or even if you want to believe Toerpe, donated to Am Vets, who has no record of said donations. Suffice…. can law enforcement see anything illegal with any of these actions?
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> I called 603-961-0826 about an hour ago to speak to my mother and wish her a loving hello, and was denied and law enforcement cannot see that this is classic elder abuse. I begs the question of how far will Toerpe and Company go to protect ******? How far will law enforcement agencies go to protect the abuser Carolyn Toerpe?
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> Who will protect my mother, Mary G. Sykes? Who will protect her?
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> Here’s a picture of my mother and me on June 22, 2013. She is very, very happy. See attachment.
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> Here’s a picture of my mother at Kristin’s elaborate wedding in June 2011. See Attachments. She’s not happy, and why should she be? Robert Toerpe, who works for the DuPage County Sheriff’s Department once called my mother and father filthy names, which caused even Carolyn and Fred Toerpe to not associate with him for YEAR! Nevertheless, Toepre told Judge Garber my mother was too incapacitated to be a witness in June, 2011. Kristin paid off her $30,000 college loan around the same time: Toepre paid off her home of around $70,000. Toerpe now wears a diamond watch and large diamond ring, and has been to an expensive salon for her hair and even her clothes are more expensive. Further, Toerpe and her husband have once again remodeled their home, and did extensive and expensive landscaping in 2013. That said, in 2012, Toerpe let mother have $50 to spend on herself and that is all that was spent on mother for clothes or education, or ***. But Toerpe spent $150 of mother’s money on a wedding gift for Kristin. Toerpe also didn’t pay mother’s mortgage and mother’s home went into foreclosure in March 2012. (I got mother’s home out of foreclosure, which Toerpe inventoried that mother paid the mortgage in 2012!!! and Judge Stuart did not care…) To wit, I’ll bet you that Toerpe cannot produce one recent photograph of mother with Toerpe where mother is happy. That too says a lot.
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> I WAS DENIED TO SPEAK WITH MY MOTHER, BUT WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT IS THAT MY MOTHER HAS BEEN DENIED HER RIGHT TO ASSOCIATE WITH ME.
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> Gloria Jean Sykes
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